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3 Things You Need to Know About Emailing Women Online: Guest blog from admin's blog

Our first Guest Blog is written by one of America's leading dating experts Joshua Pompey. He sheds his expertise on the topic of talking to women online, for all the single men out there.

For many men online dating can be a frustrating task. When things are going great, having unlimited potential dates right at your fingertips is nothing short of amazing.  But when things are going bad, the amount of time wasted sending out emails can really add up in a hurry. The goal of online dating should be to form connections, not to feel as if you are working a second job with a terrible payoff.Well here’s the good news. Receiving responses from women online is an easy task once you learn all the little nuances of online dating. But it all begins with giving yourself a proper education. Follow all my rules and I could get your response rate up to at least thirty percent. But first things first. Let’s take a look at three things that that you need to know before sending out that first message online.

1.  Beautiful women are in extreme demand online.

Think beautiful woman get hit on a lot at bars? Well in the online world, those same beautiful women will be hit on a rate that shatters anything these women would experience in the “real” world. This is because the same men that fear face-to-face rejection have no fear of hitting on a woman behind the safety net of a computer screen. On any given day you might be competing with 20 to 50 men for the same girl.Does this mean you have no chance online or a better chance of meeting women at a bar? Absolutely not. What it does mean though is that you must be extremely interesting, engaging, and give women a reason to want to write you back. There will be many men to choose from every week. So make yourself into the best choice, which all starts with writing the perfect email.

2.  Women can’t resist men that make them laugh.  

Men have a number of tools at their disposal to attract women and tend to feel an attraction towards men based on a whole variety of qualities that have absolutely nothing to do with looks, such as confidence, demonstrating alpha male qualities, showing value, etc. It’s one of the huge benefits of being a guy. But of all the tools a man can use to attract a woman online, humour is by far the most superior. When you make a woman laugh, her interest will immediately start to perk up. If you can carry the laughter from your first email, all the way through to your profile, then you will exponentially increase your chances of a first date eventually being granted. At the end of the day, when a woman is deciding who to go on a date with, she’s most likely going to choose the man that shows the most potential of fun. And humour is what reveals this potential.

3.  Canned emails will instantly be deleted.

I know what you’re thinking. It’s really hard to come up with something original to write in every single email. I get it. It’s rough. But you know what’s even rougher? Sending out fifty emails and getting rejected by every one of them. And that is exactly what will happen if you email out the same message to fifty women. The truth is, women can spot these types of canned emails a mile away.  No woman wants to feel as if she is getting hit on by some pick up line.  Women want to feel unique and special. So put in the extra effort and come up with something creative. I promise you, the effort will be worth it when all is said and done.

Joshua Pompey has been helping online daters to succeed with online dating through his products and services at a success rate of over 99% atwww.jpompey.com For more information on how you could write the perfect first message in 90 seconds or less, read this article http://jpompey.com/gents/online-dating-pick-lines/ Or find the perfect material for messaging women by learning about his world famous online dating guides for men.


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